Making Out

In traditional making out, the kiss of choice is the French kiss. The French kiss is a bit more illusive. If you need some more guidance in this passionate practice, consider the following French kissing tips.

  • Always ensure both of you are relaxed, comfortable and snuggled, before beginning a longer make out session.
  • Find the perfect romantic setting; lighting, sounds and aromas all help create the mood.
  • Start out slow, with gentle closed lip kissing, moving into the more heated tongue kisses.
  • Utilize your other body parts to enhance the passion. Caress your partner’s face, touch her hair, wrap your legs together, hug and push close together.
  • When using your tongue to kiss, you want to avoid too much. Make sure the tongue is relaxed and the movements gentle and subtle.
  • Brush your tongue inside your partner’s mouth, suck slightly on each others tongues, and tickle the lips.
  • Avoid too much movement while kissing, make your actions controlled and relaxed.
  • Remember to take breathing breaks.
  • Take control of your salvia.

The Mechanics

The first rule of French kissing is that every woman has her own style. This style evolves out of a combination of your mouth’s unique anatomy, including the length of your tongue and how far your jaw will open, as well as your level of sexual aggression and personal tastes. Regardless, the mechanics are all the same: Tilt your head to one side, part your lips, slip your tongue into your mate’s parting lips, then explore what’s inside. Breathe through your nose (or your mouth if your nose is stuffy). Once you’ve got the basic mechanics down, it’s time to experiment with technique. Here are two worthy of experimentation:

The lusty french kiss

This kiss needs no warm-up. You want your partner and your partner wants you, as evidenced by your collective, animal-like panting. Your tongue is already in his mouth before you realize that you’re kissing. But now what? Slowly — and I mean slowly — roll your tongue in circles around your partner’s. Thrust shallow, thrust deep. Then circle again. Tilt your head to the other side, and repeat. Playfully bite his lower lip, then lick his lips.

The coy french kiss

This kiss needs coaxing, as evident by your partner’s mellow breathing. Start with his lips. With the tip of your tongue lick his top lip, then kiss him softly, no tongue. Next, taste his lower lip, then brush both your lips back and forth, and up and down his. Gaze seductively into your partner’s eyes — eye contact usually helps rev up the respiratory system. Next, add a little panting and moaning to your efforts. Finally, ease your tongue between his lips, slipping in and out. Continue in this coy manner until you reach the point where the lusty French kiss takes over. Then alternate between the coy and lusty kisses. You see, variety and surprise are what ultimately make a French kiss more than just a kiss.

Things You’ll Need

  • Mints
  • Lip Balm or Lip Gloss for women
  • Partner
  • Self-confidence

Warnings

  • To some people a hard tongue is a turn-off. Keep tongue and lips soft and supple. Think of the pressure used to lick a soft service ice cream cone, no probing with a stiff tongue unless the other enjoys it. Use variations to mix it up, as well. Now go ahead and practice!
  • You can still French kiss if one or both of you has braces, but you should be careful to prevent the braces from touching each other. Also avoid touching the braces with your tongue (you might accidentally cut it).
  • Excessive saliva can build up during a French kiss, and that can interfere with the romantic moment. Swallow periodically without breaking the kiss. If you have trouble doing that, do not be afraid to pull away for a moment.
  • If you ever feel uncomfortable or do not want to move forward with any move your partner is attempting, pull away and let your partner know that you want to stop. Be firm. It’s OK to say no.
  • Try not to bite the other persons tongue.
  • Remember, a regular kiss is okay too, if your partner is not up for la francais.

Sources: Love to know, Living one India


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